Ambition v/s companionship

 Marriage, Freedom, and Balance in Modern Times

Picture this — you’re standing at the crossroads of ambition and companionship, holding your dreams in one hand and the promise of lifelong partnership in the other. In a world that celebrates success, independence, and self-growth, marriage can sometimes feel like an interruption — something that might put your aspirations on pause.

Today, many potential brides and grooms are deeply focused on their careers and personal growth. These are the golden years of self-development, and for many, marriage seems like a hurdle that could slow down progress. That’s why more and more young men and women are choosing to delay marriage, and some even decide to forgo it altogether.

It is often said that “Freedom empowers.” And yes, freedom is precious — but only to a certain extent. At Saptapadi Vivah, we often meet individuals in their 40s who have achieved great success in their careers, built wealth, and created comfortable lives. Yet, despite all these achievements, they still feel something is missing. That missing piece is companionship. The truth is, beyond the hustle and accomplishments, isolation begins to weigh heavily — and that’s when the desire for a partner becomes stronger.

For many, marriage is seen as a synonym for responsibility, sacrifice, and restrictions. The fear is: “Once I marry, my personal growth, my career, and my dreams will be locked away.” This concern is especially strong among women, who often worry about balancing marriage with their professional ambitions. Naturally, this hesitation makes them push marriage further down the road.

But here’s the reality — every decision in life comes with its own pros and cons. The key is not to swing to extremes, but to find balance between career and family life. Of course, achieving this balance is not easy. It is possible only when you are with the right partner.

At Saptapadi Vivah, we believe in helping people find a “suitable life partner” rather than chasing the illusion of a “perfect life partner.” Perfection on paper — good looks, degrees, or a high-paying job — does not guarantee suitability. True suitability lies in emotional, intellectual, and psychological compatibility. These are the qualities that create a peaceful, supportive, and lifelong bond.

Yes, financial security and comfort matter in today’s fast-paced world. But what truly sustains happiness is having a partner who understands your dreams, respects your individuality, and walks with you through every phase of life.

Marriage is not about losing freedom — it’s about sharing that freedom with someone who makes it more meaningful. At the right time, with the right partner, marriage can not only bring companionship but also help you grow as a complete individual — personally, emotionally, and spiritually.

At Saptapadi Vivah, our mission is to guide brides and grooms in finding their equal half — someone who makes freedom purposeful and togetherness truly beautiful.

Dr. Snehal Sukhatankar

Co-founder, Saptapadi Vivah